Random-ness #1

Sometimes, i am so envy with some people that can be so honest with themselves. ((:

I wish i can be like them too, but what will people think about me?

I know some people will say, what's wrong being yourself? Why do you care about what people think about you? You are you, why try to be what you are not? But, i am someone that is very sensitive to what other people think about me.

Yeap, i am very sensitive to that. So if someone criticises me, i will be so damn upset with that person and may not wish to talk to the person anymore because that is not me. But if you criticises me for what i really am, i will reflect. However, some people will just judge or criticise you when they do not understand you at all. By writing this i don't mean i never criticise people at all, i do criticise because i do not know the person at all and maybe sometimes i criticise because i am jealous of the person.

There are many factors to look into regarding this, it is so broad that some people may not agree with me or maybe don't know what i am writing also. haha. I, myself also don't what i am typing about. haha. There are many problems, broken relationships, etc that happened in this world due to misunderstanding and not understanding each other enough. Most importantly, all these that happened, the fault should not belongs to only one party, it definitely involve more than 2 parties. It is the same as "it takes 2 hands to clap." Same meaning.

Knowing someone is not about time, it is whether you want to understand the person.

Ok. Random post of the week. I don't why all these suddenly came to me.

BYE!

*signing off*